Yes I know he does work long hours actually I suppose I am maybe feeling insecure. I guess what I want is more validation. And I also want to make sure that I like him more before we become serious and I make an investment, which I feel I can only come to know if we see each other more frequently. By 3 months I think we should already know if we are sort of semi serious or not no? Wow you are so lucky that your man does that for you My guy has planned most of our dates, but they havent been any crazy.
I feel awkward about this stuff and he's quite a passive guy.
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So for example when we went for icecream I ordered first and then the woman asked if our order was together, so I said yes not to be rude and paid since I was first in line I guess my whole issue with this guy is that maybe he is just too passive for me in general, on initiating dates, on showing affection for me. I think you might be right I think i've given this guy a good shot. I'm going to speak to him this week and let him know how I'm feeling on the off chance that he is trying to take it slow.
He deserves a chance to react after knowing how I feel. However, it's just too slow for me and I'm losing interest fast. I see the potential in him though and the thought of going back into the dating game is a bit exhausting to think about at the moment, haha. But if this is all there is, I'll take my chances out in the wild again for something that is more what I want. I would say 5 weeks is about the right time to be seeing each other more than once a week. If that's not coming naturally then it may be time for the "where we're going" chat.
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Nevermind the whole texting issue for a second, if you are feeling lukewarm, I don't think it's a good sign. It shouldn't always be the guy that does all the initiating. I actually lose interest very fast when a girl does this. Relationships aren't a one way street, just because you accept a date, does not mean the same or show the same interest as if you initiated it. All times are GMT The time now is 4: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice.
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Before you decide to date, you mush already love yourself, by yourself, and only yourself. No matter what actions you get from your dates, should not be dictating your happiness or moods. You are only dating. He owes you nothing. He has no obligation to do a follow up date. If he is in to you, he will contact you. Your only job at this stage is to show up on dates if you like the guy and enjoy yourself. You need to have had already establish your standards and boundaries. Meaning, you require 24 to 48 hrs advanced notice to for dates. And most of all, you date others.
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