God damn it Canada!!
A love, hate relationship.
Why did I even exit the kitchen?? Taking care of each other IS pretty cool but my question is, why does it have to be — men opening doors and women cooking meals? You stated that those are the nice things to do for each other, and I agree, but I think what people have a problem with is, stating-women should do this and men should do that.
No one is entitled to one thing more than the other ex: Because people who ignore history are doomed to repeat it! What does this even has to do with history? I love it when a man cooks for me, helps me do the dishes, etc. Gender roles go both ways. You want us to treat you like a woman then I will open doors and pay for everything. When I get home I expect dinner ready, the house taken care of and a glass of scotch waiting for me. The fact that you think your entitled to having a man open the door for you is what pisses me off. You have no problem opening a door or carrying two bags of groceries, or at least I dont think you do.
Women are entitled to be treated well with respect , and adoration by the men they date. I do consider myself to be a feminist, you know why? Because I am a women and I am educated enough to know history and think that, hey, having the same legal rights, salary and opportunities as a men is a pretty nice thing? The exaggeration is slight, but they mainly lived in these three rooms and could never leave the house without their father or husband. Yes, I am a feminist, but I am not unfeminine. I believe that sense of entitlement is detrimental to society, relationships and even your own well-being.
After all, the only way to make someone do something for you is to make them want to do it for you.
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I of course carry what I can but when they are too heavy he will carry some. Yes, he paid for our first date and bought me lots of drinks, and believes it was very worth it. For clarification he holds the door open for everybody, man or woman.
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He paid for our first date because he asked me out, and believes that whoever asks the other out should pay for dinner. You are absolutely right chivalry is so much more alive in Europe than here. Being in your place I would try to take a look on the big map, where is North America now and where is Europe? How people live in NA and how they live in Europe? The system in NA is built so that differences between people, hate, ego, angry etc. Obviously, nothing is perfect, adjustments can be made everywhere in the world, including on me or you.
I truly believe that a man has to be gentile with a woman, open any door for her, respect her, love and communicate to her, but in the same way, the woman has to know how to fix a light bulb, a power plug, she have to be able to carry a bag, you name it. Of course life is easier in two but we all have to know to live by ourselves.
We are probably not equal fiscally and mentally but in the society we have to be all equal. We all have to get respect from the other-one. I agree that in NA women believe they are strong as men, which is not true, they should be more feminine, but here comes the part with adjustments, we have to give time to people so that they will change in better.
The problem in Europe its not the first bill, is all the bills. There women are expecting the men to pay every time. We are all working for our money. On the other hand, I find nothing wrong when a man is cooking, I am a man and I like to cook. I lived in Europe my first 20 years and the other 10 in NA. I see differences between now and then, here and there as well.
Everywhere people have changed in better so give people the time they need. In the end, I would like to say that 10 years ago I saw little girls walking on the streets in pyjamas.
Today there are no little girls walking in pyjamas. Today, any kind of music is everywhere in NA. So time is essence. This is a really good article actually. To the people that mention grammar… who cares. A good point is a good point. Why do people have such strong aggressive opinions. Why cant people agree to disagree and be civil.
Sad to see so many haters but i do ununderstand what your saying after working in bucharest romania for 2 years and yes the traditionals roles of men and woman are how it is in most of europe but if what your writing are your experiences it seems like you have clearly not been around the right men i actually dont know anyone in montreal that has been bothered by a girl not offering to pay on the first date…..
Stop pretending men and women are the same…. In Russia, the sign of respect is learning things about each other for a year before the bed squeaks. Or maybe the woman is not really what she plays to be. Who are you to tell that this must be like this, and this must be like this! Also, you keep comparing America to Europe. And HOW exactly it is in Canada?
Ever wonder if Canada truly has a face? What does Canada have? This is a hilarious article. If opening doors is the pinnacle of male achievement in a relationship, then you have very odd standards. What I care about is if he shows support for me: Also, having traveled in Europe extensively, I would strongly dispute your assertion that everybody there is one way and everybody in Canada is different.
Firstly, yes, European and Italian men in particular are raised differently. Secondly, yes, chivalry is more important to them. Feeling feminine might come from having someone hold a door for you or from cooking a meal for a loved one, but it can also come from everything that makes you a women.
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Wearing a skirt, having sex, putting makeup or just feeling your curves fill out an outfit. Your gender is a mental thing. The only important thing is really the way you feel and how you consider yourself. Gestures of affection in couples are important, but I do not believe they should be according to gender, but rather to how you and your partner feel and your mutual talents. The truth is and it hurts: Look at these bones! Look at these postures! Bigglesworth of modern time.
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Seriously, they disgust me. The right hand can be a tad more useful here than just for putting two fingers deep in when you see one naked. Can I point out how ignorant and rude you are? Who do you think survives in rough climates and life conditions? Once you take a look at it, you will see that, evolutionnarily speaking, you are defeated. You have to find yourself a psychiatrist.