I met her then she turned to poptart obviously drunk and asked him what was wrong with my face. Is it possible all your 'gains' are in your facial muscles? Like are the little fine-control muscles of your jaw just absolutely bulging? Are you or are you not carrying 10 pounds of pure muscle in your face alone? My new body is reflection of my improved personality. I fixed myself internally before I started my transition. I have had more dates, any number is better than 0 and get more attention on a night out. I think the most noticeable difference is I'm not immediately turned down anymore.
Some women are generally interested in what I have to say. I need to maybe filter myself for sake of conversation but when I was at my biggest, women just walked away. I get much more attention. I've had more girls interested in hooking up. The overall attractiveness of women willing to talk to me has increased. But I'm not far enough above average looking for it to matter much.
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Nope, I got female friends that were comfortable with me which is still a plus over no female friends. Well you know what some one once said 'good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere Ahh the poetry of meatloaf is a wondrous thing- makes one man weep and and another one sing rather embarrassingly loudly. At one point in the past, I dropped from to Dating life did not change one single bit.
Discovered that, while looks DO matter, mindset matters just as much. I used to be fat and now I'm fairly attractive according to most friends ugly face but pretty nice body by RL standards IMO and I get nowhere with people because my confidence is at about the same level it was when I was fat. All the advice you need: I thought I would be doing so much better in that area, and now I'm left wondering if my personality is awful, or not there. I just thought it would be better.
I definitely got more attention and got asked out. At 6'7, when I was around lbs, I actually had more dates in less time. Right now I'm down to around , I eat healthy, exercise regularly and would say that I have had worse and less dating experiences.
Of course I would write it off as "it's just highschool" other than the fact that I actually am a better person now than I was then. Well in the state that I was Yes I was fat, I had very little muscle mass and most of my weight was made up by bodyfat.
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But losing weight improved my confidence. That said, I feel much better about myself, which is I decided to lose weight in the first place. I am kinda tall, cm 6'3" for you challenged people , and weigh kgs. I used to be kgs two years ago. I have yo-yoed a lot since 18, i am 26 now, when i weighed kgs. The least i ever was was 92 kgs around 6 years ago. Anyway, yes my dating improved. Since getting below kgs a year ago i have been in two relationships.
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One that lasted 10 months, and one that is just now "starting". Thing is, turns out my weight was never the problem.
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The girl i am with now fell for me 2 years ago when i was fat. Turns out the difference is mostly in my mind. I used to be very thin then put on a lot of weight, lost it then gained a lot of it back and am now losing it again, all because of medical issues and the medications. The first time I was heavy I didn't even try to date, I was disgusted with myself, then when I lost weight I had a little bit of success with women but still had that "fat guy" mind set.
As I put on weight the second time I was a little more comfortable and accepting that to some degree it was out of my control and dated some, had two relationships and quite a few dates. Now that I've lost 40 pounds in under three months, only changes have been swapping one medicine and eating breakfast rather than a huge lunch and a huge dinner with some snacks, I have noticed a lot of women flirting with me, yesterday I stopped for a slice of pizza and the girl there who was half my age was flirting hard.
I still need to lose some more weight before I really want to start worrying about dating again but the positive attention is nice. I am 22, I spent most of my life as either "Husky" or fat. We still hooked up in Senior year because we were both desperate and no one else really liked us she did date around after but it was short and she came back to me to be FWB. Junior year I weighed about my lowest in HS Senior year Junior year of College I got up to That was my peak.
In between Senior year of hs and Junior year of college I hooked up with 2 girls, had sex once and went on 3ish dates. I had no love life. At around I found a GF through Match. She was awesome as hell but a BBW and not really attractive. I dated her from around We broke up and I immidietly found a cute BBW to rebound with. That lasted two to three months as FWB, I made out with 2 other girls during that time while on dates.
I am now at and I was able to go out with a girl I hadn't charmed online and actually met at a bar.
She was okay, chubby but an upgrade. We dated and had a 1 nighter and went our separate ways when I wanted something serious and she didn't. Some are just cute thick girls and some are insecure fit girls big noses or something. I am not done losing weight and I am not cleaning house. I am just getting over my fears of approaching girls at parties or in public but I remember how awful it felt to not be wanted when I weighed pounds and my life has changed completely.
TLDR; Went from to Getting more attention but its not all quality, mostly from online dating sites.
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Have to get over my fear of rejection and learn not to take things personally. It has absolutely improved. One of the best things about dropping the weight is that I am no longer invisible to women. I'm not used to the attention, and get a little wierded out when someone violently eyefucks me when I am in a social setting.
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The women at work are very complimentary, but I don't fish off the company pier. In high school, I was 5'11 and Over my senior year I grew an inch and lost about 50 pounds I've since grown another inch. There was one girl during my senior year who was clearly interested in me and dropped a ton of obvious hints. I still had the low confidence of an overweight guy and assumed she was just being friendly. She was pretty, fun, and we had great conversations, and I missed out on that because of my pessimistic attitude.
When I went to college I started weightlifting and building muscle.
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I had girls interested in me one even had a whiteboard in her room of guys she wanted to hook up with, and I was at the top of the list , but it took a while for the low confidence thing to shake so little really cme of it. I did notice that people were more drawn to me, both from a romantic and non-romantic context, but that probably had more to do with the confidence I built from losing weight than it did from the weight loss itself.
In terms of dating, you'll get more attention but it's not like you can just sit back and expect things to happen. You'll still be expected to make the first move. People will probably be more receptive to you than before, but ultimately your attitude will play a bigger determinant of your success than your physique. I'm a muscular guy but have always been chubby. Since losing 30 pounds the difference in attention is palpable. Perhaps it's just age, but I actually feel like I get less attention now i'm not obese.
I'm still not skinny by any means, but I've lost a good 30kgs from my peak. Uploading a series of images to Reddit, the year-old showed the world the 10kg worth of excess skin and tissue that he must live with after losing such a large amount of weight.